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God's Design for Families

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In this episode of By Design, host Bert Harper takes listeners on a reflective journey exploring God's design for marriage and the family. He begins by reminiscing about the strong family structures that once were the norm in society, emphasizing the importance of support systems that include the church, schools, and community.

As Bert delves deeper into the subject, he acknowledges the imperfections present in both families and churches. He encourages listeners to lean on Christ for fulfillment, reminding them that no family is perfect, but the love of Christ can fill any void. Bert stresses the vital role of the church in not only upholding the biblical standard for marriage but also in ministering to those who are hurting due to divorce, loss, or singlehood.

One of the most poignant points Bert makes is that the pursuit of a single person should not solely be about finding a spouse, but rather about knowing and following God. He cites the Apostle Paul, who emphasizes the value of singleness and how it can be a time of serving God without distractions. This perspective is crucial in a world where marriage and singlehood often seem at odds.

Throughout the episode, Bert encourages the church to reach out to those who feel marginalized or hurt, reinforcing the idea that the church should be a place of healing and support. He reminds us that God cares deeply for everyone, especially the fatherless, widows, and those struggling with loneliness. The church's mission is to demonstrate love and compassion, reflecting the love of Christ in all interactions.

Listeners are left with a powerful message: while the standards for marriage and family are set high, the church is called to support both those who meet those standards and those who do not. By providing a loving community, the church can help heal the wounds of those who have been hurt and encourage everyone to pursue a relationship with God, regardless of their family situation.

This episode of By Design is a heartfelt reminder of the importance of family, the church's role in supporting individuals, and the love of Christ that binds us all together.

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