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I’m going to throw out some Christian youth buzzwords and we’ll see what they have in common.
Broken. Screwed up. Being real. Messy. Recovering. Wrecked.
The one thing these words are centered around is “authenticity.” The younger generation of Christians has developed a fascination with “realness.” It can be seen in almost every aspect of our religious lives. We make deprecating jokes about church culture. We try to deviate from the traditional church because, to some of us, it seems pretentious. We love to have informal sessions rather than formal worship services. We’re all about getting on the level where everyone is their real selves and making no room for hypocrisy.
It is my fear that this stems more from a desire to not be seen as a hypocrite and less from a desire to be really humble. We see the church-folks all dressed up and traditional and we react: “You know what? I’m going to wear my ripped jeans, play my kind of music in the church and let everyone know my struggles, because God loves me for who I am and I’m not going to pretend to be anyone else.” So we basically parade our “realness” around like a scarlet letter in defiance of tradition.
Being a genuine, authentic person is commendable, but if not done in a truly humble attitude it does a few things that dishonor God.
Instead of trying to appear “authentic,” be humble!
First, look to Christ. See who you are in light of who He is. When you see your sin, see also His perfection. When you see your selfishness, see His selfless sacrifice. When you see your conditional love for others around you, see His love for you in spite of your many sins. Warm your heart to love Him with the coals of His love for you. You will feel no need to impress anyone with your “realness” when He is the great motivator in your life.
Second, pursue Christ. Drop everything – everything – in your life that distracts you from Him. Pray. Try to set a record for how long you pray and then break it over and over. If you don’t pray like your life depends on it, your spiritual walk will suffer – because your life depends on it. Abide in Christ, just like a branch abides in a tree, connected and integrated. Like Jacob wrestling the angel, do not let go of Him! Insist, based upon His promises in the Word, that He finishes His work in your life for His glory. There is no room for pride in a life that is lived like this.
Lastly, be like Christ. Christ was a Man of Sorrows, but He didn’t parade His sorrows for everyone to see in order to be “authentic.” He simply walked in humility and obedience with God. Beware the temptation to throw off tradition for the sake of “authenticity.” Examine your reasons for doing so. You cannot afford to go about life depreciating yourself and the church when Christ Himself has rescued you from helplessness and wrath and has made you “seated with Him in the heavenly places” (Ephesians 2:6).
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